Flirting isn’t something that comes naturally to everyone and it can be hard trying to show your interest, especially through text. As digital dating is now the norm, most people meet through apps, or if you do manage to score someone’s phone number in the real world, all the hard work gets done over texting. Being able to send flirty texts is something you need to master. It can be anything from good morning messages to sweet texts or flirty conversation starters.
It doesn’t matter whether you’re messaging a future partner, frequent lover, a new dating app match, or your long-term girlfriend or boyfriend, the art of a flirty text is something you should understand so you are able to deliver a flirty message at the drop of a hat. While there are differences between face-to-face and flirting over text, as Psychology Today points out, flirting over text has several advantages, including being able to form your text with more time and consideration, making sure you don’t cross the line.
The best sexy text messages aren’t long and drawn out, but short and sharp. You only need a sentence or two to convey how you are feeling about your loved one. And not every flirty text message has to be sexually charged. Sure, that certainly shows your intentions, but there are ways of being subtle about your feelings and living a little up to the other person’s imagination.
If you’re a little unsure what constitutes the best flirty texts or need some help compiling a flirty message that won’t offend, then you’re in luck, as we have gathered a selection of our favorite flirty text messages that will get your crush hot and bothered, or at the very least interested on where the conversation is going.
132 Flirty Texts To Send To Your Partner
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1. I wish you were here next to me right now.
2. Hey, stranger. Stop being a stranger.
3. Guess what I’m not wearing right now?
4. Have you thought about me at all today? Type “Y” for yes.
5. What would you say if I asked you to come over right now?
6. I’m making the first move when it comes to texting, so I’m expecting you to make the first move when it comes to kissing.
7. My parents are out. Wanna come over? I mean, they’ve lived in Los Angeles for 10 years, but still…
8. What would you say if I asked you over? (Not that I am… yet.)
9. This is me asking you out. Want to get a drink on Friday night?
10. What emoji makes you think of me?
11. I have three little words I’ve been wanting to tell you: Bring. Pizza. Now.
12. Now that I’ve officially texted you, I’m going to be obsessively staring at my phone, waiting for it to beep, so don’t keep me waiting.
13. I’m in bed and soooo cold. I need a cuddle buddy.
14. What are your favorite letters of the alphabet? Mine are U and I.
15. Come over. Now. Nobody is here except me.
16. I never get bored of thinking about you or talking to you.
17. Hands up! I’m the FBI, and you’re on my most-wanted list.
18. You’re world champion at making me grin like an idiot.
19. You can’t text me first, but you can update your Facebook status every five minutes? I see how it is.
20. What’s your type and why is it me?
21. Hey! Stop thinking about me so much!
22. Do you believe in love at first text? Because you can delete this one, and I can keep texting until you do.
23. I had a dream about you last night. Want to know more?
24. Tell me your biggest regret. Mine is not climbing over the table to kiss you last night.
25. I’m out shopping and am in the dressing room. Wanna help me pick out what to buy?
26. When Santa asked what I want for Christmas, I sent him your Instagram.
27. Netflix and chill?
28. Do you have any plans for this weekend? Because I don’t.
29. Your love is better than ice cream – and fewer calories too.
30. You’re looking particularly hot right now. Don’t worry, I’m not stalking you… just assuming you look as good as always.
31. My bed smells like you, but I’m worried the smell is fading fast. How soon can you make it back?
32. I just finished a book I know you would love. You should come over to pick it up.
33. How about we cozy up and watch a movie tonight?
34. Wanna pick out my outfit for date night? You can start with my underwear.
35. I miss you as much as Stormtroopers miss their targets.
36. What’s your favorite part of my body?
37. I have a secret to tell you, but I want to tell you in person.
38. Can we just call in sick tomorrow and spend the whole day together
39. I was just looking through your Instagram and not gonna lie, you’re lookin’ fine
40. All I’ve thought about all day is your mouth.
41. I’m at work. Guess what I’m not wearing!
42. Every message you send me is like a small gift.
43. Are you a photographer? Because I can already picture us together.
44. I’m bored. Tell me about a sex dream you’ve had.
45. I had a dream about you last night. I’d tell you about it, but it’s super inappropriate.
46. Want to make a beautiful memory together?
47. Have I told you how much I enjoy your lips?
48. I would invite you to come over this weekend, but I’m not sure I can keep my hands to myself.
49. Can’t wait until you’re by my side, again… or on top. Whatevs.
50. I’m addicted to you and I need another hit.
51. Such a stressful day. Want to blow off some steam together tonight?
52. I find it incredibly sexy that you’ve been patient with me about taking things slowly. Trust me, I’m worth the wait!
53. We’re better together than peanut butter and chocolate.
54. Bet you can’t make me blush.
55. I love it when my roommate’s gone because I never have to wear clothes.
56. You’re single. I’m single. I feel like this is a problem we can solve together.
57. I’d rather do nothing with you than do something with anyone else.
58. Last night was perfect. Thanks.
59. You’re my favorite veggie – a cute-cumber!
60. I’m having some particularly R-rated thoughts right now and you’re the star of all of them.
61. Let’s skip the small talk and go straight to flirting.
62. How many licks till I get to the center of it?
63. If I show some skin on our next date will you love it or hate it?
64. What would you do to me if I was with you right now?
65. I was thinking about you all day. It really distracted me at work.
66. Thinking a lot of things about you I can’t say…but I could text.
67. In the mood to have some fun?
68. You’re going to love the outfit I wear tonight.
69. Every time I close my eyes you are the only thing I see.
70. I had a dream we were sexting. Imagine my disappointment when I woke up and realized we weren’t… yet.
71. You’re the piece of me I didn’t know was missing.
72. Why don’t we take this conversation offline and a little more personal?
73. You may be out of sight, but you’re never out of my mind.
74. Want to play a game?
75. I’m cold. Wanna come over and warm me up?
76. Your scent on my pillow is my favorite smell.
77. I’m a little drunk, a little horny, and all alone.
78. Why are you so cute?
79. Instead of missing you, I could be kissing you.
80. You look great today. How do I know? Because you look good every day.
81. If I was a gift, how would you unwrap me?
82. You’re hot. I think I like you.
83. If we were to role-play, what would you want me to dress as?
84. Congrats. You’ve leveled up. I won’t be holding back the next time I see you. Prepare yourself!
85. Ever wanted to make a home movie?
86. I am soooo hungry right now… thing is… I don’t want food.
87. Let’s go to bed early and sleep late.
88. I can’t stop thinking about when you did…
89. Can’t wait to feel your arms around me again.
90. What are you craving right now?
91. If you want to make a move, today would be the perfect time to go for it.
92. You’re killing me with these sexy selfies you’re posting.
93. My love language is physical touch. Want a present?
94. I have a big, warm hoodie with your name on it.
95. I’m sorry you’re having a crappy day. Anything I can do to make it better?
96. You’re my dream guy/girl. How do I know you’re real? I think you should come over and prove it.
97. Did I tell you what I call my boobs/penis?
98. I’m so excited about our date tonight. If you play your cards right, then you’re going to love what I’ve got planned for later.
99. Every message you send me is like a small gift.
100. I have a few ideas for dessert later, and I’m not talking about ice cream.
101. You already know how I feel about you. So what are you going to do about it?
102. I love everything about you. You’re amazing!
103. Why would I want anybody when I could have your body?
104. All my friends told me they wish they had a partner like you.
105. How long until I can bury my face in your neck again?
106. You mentioned you like bed and breakfasts. I’ll bring the bed, you bring the breakfast.
107. I just took some sexy pics, but they’re too inappropriate to post on Instagram. Want to see?
108. You just left and I’m already missing you.
109. In my mind, I’ve got your arms wrapped tight around me.
110. The only argument I ever want to have with you is whether you’re the big spoon or the small spoon.
111. If you wanna stop by my house tonight I’ll make it worth the trip.
112. Do you prefer foot massages or shoulder massages?
113. What color is your pillow? I might need to check to verify.
114. You are really hot. Just texting to remind you.
115. Can we book a trip to a bed and breakfast, with heavy emphasis on the bed?
116. I’m asking myself right now, do you even exist. I mean, can someone like you be real?
117. What is your biggest turn on?
118. Seeing your name pop up on my phone makes me smile like an idiot.
119. Which emoji reminds you of me?
120. Have I told you that I want to kiss today? Because I want to kiss you.
121. You are inspiring some very sexy thoughts… by the way.
122. Make a “dirty” Amazon wish list and send it to me.
123. What do you think about in the shower?
124. My cheeks hurt from smiling so much, I just can’t stop! See what you’re doing to me.
125. Just so you know, I’m usually much better behaved.
126. I dare you to take a picture of yourself licking something.
127. You’re pretty freaking great.
128. I pretty much hate everyone, but you’re the exception.
129. This weekend. You, me, and a bottle of wine?
130. I am imagining kissing you right now and holding you tight
131. You have amazing hands.
132. There is definitely something that I would much rather be doing right now.